Unwrapping the Loop: How Christmas Hijacks Our Deepest Energies
- Bill Dandie

- Oct 26
- 4 min read
Imagine this: It's the dead of winter, the longest night of the year cloaking the world in an almost tangible darkness. For millennia, humanity has gathered under that veil—not to shop or sip eggnog, but to witness a miracle.

The Winter Solstice, that pivotal moment when the sun pauses its southward retreat and begins its triumphant return, symbolizing rebirth, renewal, and the unyielding cycle of light conquering shadow. This isn't just astronomy; it's alchemy for the soul. Ancient Celts lit yule logs to banish the gloom, Romans feasted during Saturnalia to honor the god of time and abundance, and Germanic tribes celebrated Yule as the goddess birthed the god anew, mirroring the sun's resurrection. It's a time of raw, divine energy—a peak in the earth's subtle rhythms where introspection meets cosmic hope.
Now, fast-forward to today. That same solstice energy? It's been gift-wrapped, garlanded, and slapped with a price tag. Welcome to "The Loop"—that insidious cycle of control mechanisms designed to keep us spinning in distraction, debt, and dopamine hits, year after year.
At Ketchum House, where we peel back the layers of modern life to reveal the soul's quiet truths, we're diving deep into how Christmas, of all things, exemplifies this trap. It's not just a holiday; it's a masterclass in engineered euphoria, blinding us to the very power it once channeled.
The Hijacking: From Solstice Fire to Santa's Sleigh
Let's trace the threads. The early Christian church, in its bid to convert the masses, didn't invent December 25th out of thin air. No, they astutely overlaid Jesus's nativity onto existing pagan solstice festivals. Saturnalia's wild revelry—feasting, gift-giving, and role reversals—morphed into Christmas merriment. The "unconquered sun" (Sol Invictus), a Roman deity celebrated on the 25th, became the "light of the world" in Christ.

Even the date was a calculated pivot: Why December 25th and not the solstice proper on the 21st or 22nd? Historians point to this deliberate alignment, absorbing solstice rituals to ease the transition from old gods to the new. The church fathers knew the pull of this season's energy; it was too potent to ignore, so they reframed it.
But here's the deeper cut: Was Jesus—Yeshua, the historical figure of radical love and rebellion—really born under winter's chill? The Gospels offer no birthday card clues. Shepherds tending flocks at night? That's spring or fall imagery, not midwinter freeze. Early church traditions whisper of a March or April birth, tied to Passover's themes of liberation and lambing season. Some scholars even peg it to Sukkot in September/October, aligning with themes of divine dwelling among us. One ancient record from the 2nd century claims a spring equinox arrival, syncing with the sun's equal balance of day and night—far more poetic than a forced December debut. December 25th? A convenient fiction, a solstice overlay to domesticate the wild divine spark.
Enter the 19th century, and the real loop tightens. St. Nicholas, the 4th-century bishop of gift-giving lore, gets a makeover. Dutch immigrants bring "Sinterklaas" to America, but it's Clement Clarke Moore's 1823 poem A Visit from St. Nicholas (you know, "Twas the night before Christmas") that fleshes him out as a jolly, reindeer-riding elf.

Then, boom—Harper's Weekly illustrator Thomas Nast cements the red-suited icon in the 1860s-70s, tying him to Civil War morale boosts and emerging consumer culture. By the 1930s, Coca-Cola seals the deal with those iconic ads: Santa as the ultimate brand ambassador, his image standardized to hawk soda and spark spending sprees. What started as a nod to charity became a $1 trillion global industry, with Black Friday stampedes and credit card bills that linger like holiday hangovers.
The Control Mechanism: Euphoria as Enslavement
This isn't accidental. "The Loop" thrives on our wiring—the brain's reward system hijacked for profit. That euphoric buzz? It's solstice magic repackaged: twinkling lights echoing ancient bonfires, evergreens symbolizing eternal life (a pagan staple), and communal feasts channeling Saturnalia's abundance. But strip away the nostalgia, and what's left? Stress metrics skyrocket—80% of Americans report holiday anxiety, per surveys. We overspend by 30-50% on average, bury ourselves in debt, overeat to numb the frenzy, and overdrink to toast away the emptiness. It's a velvet trap: The powers that be—corporations, media, even cultural inertia—dangle this "most wonderful time" to keep us chasing externals, blind to the internal fire.

At its peak divine moment, when the earth's energy crests toward light, we've built a false realm. Santa's sack isn't filled with coal; it's stuffed with distractions, diverting us from the true source. Yeshua's message? Radical presence, not presents. The solstice's gift? Unmediated renewal, not retail therapy. We're looped in repetition, returning like moths to a flame that's been commodified into a fluorescent bulb.
Breaking Free: A Solstice Without the Wrappings
So, pause amid the jingle bells. Why do you celebrate Christmas this year? Is it love, legacy, or just the gravitational pull of habit? What if we opted out—not with Scrooge-like disdain, but with intentional grace? Imagine the solstice as it was meant to be: A quiet vigil on the longest night, journaling by candlelight, walking bare under stars that birthed the myths. No turkey carcass, no tinsel tangles—just you, the returning sun, and that primal pulse of possibility.

At Ketchum House, we're hosting a Solstice Circle this December 21st: No gifts, no guilt, just shared silence and stories of light reclaimed. Join us? Or start smaller—decline the office party, gift experiences over objects, or simply sit with the question: What if this year's "pass" unlocked the real loop-breaker?
The energy is still there, waiting. Unwrap it on your terms. The sun rises regardless.

What about you, reader?
Share in the comments:
Have you ever skipped the holiday hustle?
What emerged in the quiet?
Bill
Ketchum House – A Sanctuary for Soulful Inquiry




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